Funeral plans guide: Everything you need to know

Funeral plans guide: Everything you need to know

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Few subjects are more challenging to discuss with loved ones than life insurance, death and funerals. However, pre-paid funeral plans offer a means of removing the pressure from family and friends after you have gone. So, where do you start?

  • The pre-paid funeral industry has attracted more than its fair share of negativity in years gone by. Thankfully, due to increased regulation and customer protection, the future looks more promising.
  • Payment options include a one-off payment or monthly payments to cover the cost of your plan. However, it is essential to read the small print when signing up for a pre-paid funeral plan.
  • Many people are surprised at the flexibility shown by funeral directors and others involved in funerals and ceremonies. This is your chance to plan your funeral and leave nothing to chance.
  • Whether considering a pre-paid funeral plan for peace of mind, so as not to burden loved ones, or to ensure you receive an appropriate send-off, this is an option you should consider.

Funeral plans: FAQ

  • Can I get a refund on my pre-paid funeral plan?

    Yes. Most of those offering pre-paid funeral plans will provide a full refund if you change your mind within 30 days. However, after 30 days, you will likely be charged a cancellation fee with the balance of premium payments returned to you. Therefore, it is vital to check out the fine print before signing up for a pre-paid plan.

  • What happens if the funeral director goes out of business?

    Firstly, funds to pay for your funeral are held separately from the company offering the service. So if they were to go out of business, your funds are safe. Secondly, as a member of the Funeral Planning Authority, other registered providers would work together to deliver the pre-arranged funeral.

  • What happens if I have a pre-paid funeral plan but die abroad?

    In the vast majority of cases, travel insurance would cover the repatriation of the deceased if they were to die abroad. Upon repatriation to the UK, the pre-paid funeral plan would be activated and the funeral service delivered as agreed. If extra mileage was involved in picking up the deceased in the UK, this could be charged as an additional cost.

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The idea of sitting down with loved ones discussing your demise and your funeral is not a pleasant thought for anybody. Addressing funeral costs and funeral services before your death can sometimes feel like tempting fate. In reality, as funeral costs continue to rise and the cost of living follows, it is essential to address life insurance and pre-paid funeral plans, if not just for your peace of mind.

There has been concern regarding the stability and security of individual funeral plan providers in the past. Was your money safe? Are you getting value for money? Would they be able to deliver? While the Funeral Planning Authority (FPA) has been regulating the pre-paid funeral sector since 2002, from 29 July 2022, the industry will fall under the remit of the Financial Conduct Authority (FCA).

We will now attempt to demystify what can be a mysterious sector, correct common myths and give you an idea of what is out there and what to expect with your funeral arrangements.

What is a funeral plan?

In simple terms, a funeral plan is an easy way to not only pre-pay but also pre-arrange your own funeral service upon your death. While most people tend to go for cremation these days, there is also the option of a pre-paid burial funeral.

It is easy to focus on the idea of taking away the pressure from loved ones upon your death, but there are some practical reasons to look at funeral plans. When you take out a funeral plan, you pay for your funeral at today's prices, protecting yourself from inflation. There are different types of funerals to consider, but in 2020, the average funeral cost £4184.

Even though both can be used to cover the cost of a funeral, it is essential to differentiate between a life insurance policy and a pre-paid funeral plan. An insurance policy will pay out a predetermined amount on your death. How and when the money is spent by your executors/beneficiaries will depend on whether or not you have left specific instructions. In addition, you cannot redeem the insurance policy; the moment you stop paying the premiums is when your life cover ends.

A pre-paid funeral plan will pay for a funeral of your choice. You can define the budget and whether there is a ceremony. All of the funds from your pre-paid plan will be used to cover the cost of your funeral. If you decide to cancel your funeral plan, you will receive repayment of your premiums, less an administration fee if the plan is more than 30 days old.

Why might you need a funeral plan?

The fact that pre-paid funeral plans lock in the cost of your funeral at today's prices is important but not the only reason you may need a funeral plan. We all have very different financial scenarios, family lives, hopes, and aspirations for our loved ones. Some of the more common reasons why people look towards a funeral plan include:

  1. Ensure your wishes are followed

Even within the most harmonious family environment, there may be differences of opinion; emotions will be running high, which can often lead to conflict after your death. As part of your pre-paid funeral plan, you will be obliged to set up your wishes in detail in tandem with the funeral director. This can help to avoid any uncertainty and infighting amongst your loved ones. So whether you are looking for a relatively simple cremation or a ceremony taking in an array of additional funeral services, the option is yours.

  1. Create a funeral that fits your budget

Many of us struggle to focus in the early days of grief, and we often feel morally obliged to give our loved ones the "best send-off" possible. However, as the cost of living increases and the cost of funerals, immediate finance may not be readily available. As a result, it is common for people to take out significant loans to fund funerals for loved ones – going above and beyond what they can afford. In all honesty, a large, expensive funeral service can be as much for those left behind as it is for the deceased.

Taking out a pre-paid funeral plan allows you to regain control of costs and ensure that loved ones are not forced to seek finance to lay you to rest.

  1. Chat through your ideas with loved ones

Hands up if you haven’t got a clue what type of funeral your nearest and dearest would like? Have you ever actually discussed whether they want to be cremated or buried, what kind of ceremony they prefer or even who they want to perform the service? While many people have a vision in their mind of how they would like the day to proceed, it is always good to chat through your ideas with family members.

Might someone wish to read out a tribute? Perhaps your death could allow warring factions to come together? As your funeral is really for those who survive you, it may be helpful to give them an element of input when putting your plans together.

  1. Pay for your funeral upfront

In the event of financial difficulties for those left behind, there are grants and funding available for the most basic of funerals. The ability to pay upfront for your funeral ensures that you will receive a respectful, dignified send-off. It is also one less cost to cover in the future with potentially significant cost savings. As we touched on above, the cost of funerals has risen dramatically over the years. Locking in the cost of your funeral today via a prepayment plan has the potential to keep costs at a reasonable level.

  1. Remove stress from loved ones

Nobody wants to be a burden, place difficult financial pressure on loved ones and leave the payment and organising of your funeral to those grieving. However, taking out a plan to cover the cost of your funeral gives you not only peace of mind but also removes a degree of stress that far too many people have experienced. Additional financial stress when loved ones are grieving is a potential recipe for disaster, emotions run high, and comments can be made in the heat of the moment.

  1. Peace of mind

Good old-fashioned peace of mind! We enter this world with nothing, and we leave this world with nothing. So whether your death was expected or unexpected, it can provide immense peace of mind to know that your loved ones will not need to find funds to cover your funeral.

How much does a funeral cost in the UK?

If somebody was to ask you about the cost of a funeral today, would you have any idea? Would you guess it was £1000, £5000 or £10,000? Are cremations more common than burials?

The following graph gives you an idea of the split between cremations and burials:

Source: Sun Life

Most funerals are now performed in a crematorium where the deceased is cremated. Give or take a few percentage points, the split of cremations/burials has remained relatively steady in recent years. However, as the cost of a burial plot increases, together with associated expenses, we are likely to see a growing number of cremations in the future.

When it comes to the cost of funerals, as you can see from the table below, traditional burials and cremations have increased in price while direct cremations have fallen. The fall in the price of direct cremations is seen by many as a consequence of Covid. Consequently, it is expected to return to the historical trend in the short term.

While there remains a significant bias towards cremations, the following graph will give you an idea of the average cost of funerals in recent times. There are also estimates for 2021 to 2025, demonstrating the expected increase in costs.

Source: Sun Life

The increase from £1835 in 2004 to £4184 in 2020 translates to an annual increase of 5.3% over the 16 years. Even though inflation is currently around 7.5%, historically, it has been well below the 5.3% figure used in this calculation. To put it in layman’s terms, the impact of compound inflation over 16 years has resulted in a 128% increase in funeral costs. Under the same scenario, using £4184 as the base price today, in 16 years, this would rise to £9559.

Locking in the price of your funeral today has the potential to avoid rising costs in the future!

Different ways to pay for your funeral plan

As you might have guessed, there are two ways in which you can pay for your pre-planned funeral, lump sum or instalments. Premiums can start from under £10 a month, but the one-off cost or premiums tend to be higher for those over 50.

Lump-sum payments

After you have agreed on the details and cost of the funeral, you would cover this with a single payment. If you were to die one day after making the lump sum payment, your funeral costs would be covered as agreed.

Regular instalments

Many people choose to make regular instalments towards their pre-paid plan, which may be over just a few months or up to 25 years. However, if your payment term is more than one year, there will likely be additional costs that will be added to the funds used to pay for your funeral.

If you die within two years of starting a monthly instalment pre-paid plan, premiums will be repaid to your executors or family. Therefore, you would not be covered for the cost of your funeral. However, if you were to pass away after two years, the guarantee provided by many pre-paid plan providers would be activated. Consequently, your funeral costs would be covered as previously agreed.

How do funeral plans work?

While what your specific funeral plan covers and how it works will vary between different providers, there are three main categories, which are broadly the same.

Direct cremation or burial funeral plan

While cremations are much more common in the UK, some people prefer to be buried after their death. A direct cremation or burial funeral is a basic service with no fuss and no ceremony. This pre-paid funeral plan tends to be more popular amongst those with limited family and friends.

Costs covered with this type of plan include:

  • A simple coffin
  • A cremation/burial with no ceremony
  • Return of ashes if the deceased is cremated

While direct burial or cremation fees can vary between different areas of the country, it is a fraction of the cost of a traditional funeral with a ceremony. However, you should check the terms and conditions as some plans will only contribute to a burial, not cover the cost in full.

Traditional funeral plan

The traditional funeral plan takes in a burial/cremation and a ceremony to celebrate the deceased's life. This is by far and away the most popular type of funeral plan because it offers a degree of dignity with the cremation/burial and the opportunity for loved ones to pay their respects.

Costs covered with a traditional funeral plan include:

  • Doctor's fees
  • Additional fees like laying in a chapel of rest for viewings
  • Cremation or a contribution to the cost of a burial
  • A more expensive coffin
  • Ceremony
  • Hearse
  • Headstone/return of ashes to loved ones

You may be surprised to learn that some pre-paid plans only contribute to the cost of a burial. This is because of unknown variables associated with a burial. Such as the cost of a plot, which can vary widely across the country.

Traditional funeral plan with extras

While different funeral plan providers will offer a slightly different take, the three main plan types are basic, traditional and upgraded funeral. The standard funeral plan with extra costs, sometimes referred to as a premium plan, might include additional funds to cover:

  • A high-quality coffin
  • Two limousines
  • Transportation to a separate service
  • More options around the time of the funeral (funerals are typically more expensive Friday to Monday)

There is also an array of additional extras you can negotiate with the funeral plan provider to personalise your funeral. One of the benefits of discussing your funeral before your death is that you can also personalise the ceremony.

Standard services

Several standard services will be made available to immediate family and friends upon the plan holder's death. These include:

  • Direct contact with the funeral director to determine burial/cremation plan
  • Assistance with registration and collection of paperwork
  • Collection, embalming, preparation and care of the deceased
  • Opportunity to view the deceased at a chapel of rest
  • Professional advice/bereavement counselling

Each of the pre-paid plan providers may offer a different tweak on the standard services, but in effect, they help with the paperwork and, perhaps more importantly, support.

Additional expenses

We regularly see extras added to funerals to make them more personal. Some of the traditional additions include:

  • Flowers
  • Press notice
  • Catering
  • Private service

You tend to find that most funeral directors will accommodate most requests within reason. While many people feel pressure to cover the cost of additional expenses themselves, there is no right or wrong way to celebrate an individual's life. Again, this reiterates the benefit of arranging a pre-paid funeral plan to remove this pressure and "obligation" felt by many.

Changing trends

Over the years, we continue to see changing trends in funerals and celebrations. Some of the more common trends today include:

  • Non-religious ceremony
  • Themed funerals
  • Environmentally friendly funerals
  • Specified dress code
  • Broadcasting via social media

This is just a snapshot of some of the emerging trends in the funeral world. If you require something different, just ask!

Regulatory cover

As we touched on earlier, the FPA has been a self-regulatory body for the industry since 2002. All members must adhere to strict rules and codes of practice, with extensive checks carried out regularly. If a funeral director was to go out of business, where possible other FPA members would step in to provide the agreed pre-paid services.

While the FPA will remain as an industry body, funeral planning companies will come under the remit of the FCA from 29 July 2022. This added degree of formal/self-regulation will create another layer of trust that should improve the relationship with the general public going forward. Funeral plan providers across England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland will answer to the FCA.

Have you considered your funeral plan?

Historically, there was a degree of mistrust and misunderstanding regarding pre-paid funerals. However, over the last decade, we have seen significant improvements in services, more transparency and greater formal/self-regulation. Companies such as Sun Life and Dignity Funerals are leading the way.

The key to a pre-paid funeral is that most funeral directors are flexible about non-standard requests. But, let's not forget the purpose of the industry, the individual services, is to give you greater control over how you are laid to rest.

Mark Benson
Mark Benson
Mark joined Age Group in 2020 and has over 10 years’ experience specialising in writing around property, finance, and investment subjects.
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